The social aspect of communications is one of the many reasons I was attracted to working in public relations. It’s also one of the many reasons why I love Twitter. I’ve attended many tweets up and happy hours simply to meet some of my favorite people. Heck, I even drove with Kate and TJ to visit some fabulous friends in Boston who at the time I only knew via Twitter.
It wasn’t until recently that I noticed an excessive amount of “word vomit,” the act of putting one’s foot in thy mouth, at these tweet ups and happy hours that made me second guess the information I divulge when first meeting someone. We may talk to each other every day but do we really trust each other? How much word vomit is just too much before others start judging? When networking or socializing with new friends here are some topics you may want to exclude:
- Politics/Religion. We work in communications so chances are we have an opinion and have no problem voicing it. These are topics I would keep behind doors until you really know someone. Often times conversations that involve politics result in a heavy debate. Unfortunately too many people like to debate without letting bygones be bygones.
- Why you hate your job. Are you having a bad day? Did you only get four hours of sleep? Stop. We have *all* been there. It’s exhausting to listen to someone complain about their day. If you have to a) don’t use names and b) ask for ways your colleagues can help resolve the problem. At least that’s a constructive conversation. (Note: be careful who and what you talk about. You never know who will find out.)
I’m sure there are other topics that we should avoid when meeting for the first time, so I encourage you to add them below. If you find yourself in a sticky situation and you don’t like where the conversation is going here are topics that can help:
- Hobbies. Are you in a band? Do you love Elvis Presley (I do)? If we’ve connected on social networks chances are it was due to common interests. Everyone likes to talk about things they’re passionate about.
- Pop culture. We’re in PR. We need to know about pop culture and everyone loves to gossip. Just don’t do it about people you really know. Famous people are fair game.
- Your bucket list. So many people today are creating their bucket lists. It’s amazing to find out the little and big things people want to do before they die. Chances are you’ll find out new and exciting adventures you’d like to try too.
So friends, how did you survive an awkward conversation at a tweet up or meeting your social media buddy for the first time? Please share your advice below!
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